I am lonely. And sad. And weepy. But I needed to talk to someone, and talking out loud felt stupid. Please unsubscribe if you don't want to listen, I wouldn't know. I read my last few posts and realised that nothing in my life has significantly changed. I still want what I can't have, don't … Continue reading From Angst to Arousal
The oddest thing has happened. I'm finding someone quite fascinating. Thinking about interactions with them, both real and fancifully imagined, makes my gut clench and my heart flutter. I am almost one of those tweens in movies that gush over some hot guy and try to act all cool in his presence... Except I'm not. … Continue reading Never too old for crushes
A while back, I shared a masturbation fantasy that I have used over many, many years of frustratedly working at getting myself off. I hope that someday, the fantasy becomes reality, but for the moment I am as far away from that happening as I could be. I am unhappily married and my husband has … Continue reading Some Things I Think About While Diddling
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I want to belong. Over the years, I have realised that this is the fundamental need that drives me. I want to belong. I want to be approved of. I want to be wanted. I have spent a large part of my life trying to please the people around me (with occasional insights into the … Continue reading Latent Submissiveness
Are you a fresh faced virgin curious about what real sex entails? Are you a horny teenager who's seen one too many pornos and can't figure out why real sex doesn't feel the same? Whether you're a young, sexy thang getting into an active sex life or an adult entering their prime and finding themselves in … Continue reading Awkward Sex Things Mummy Never Told You About
This post is probably going to draw your hate, but it needs to be written. Is cheating ever okay? I have thought about this on and off for the past 6 years. When are you cheating and when, if ever, is it all right? Is it ever something less than unforgivable? How do I approach … Continue reading On Infidelity
Since we don't live long enough to make all the mistakes and learn from them, we need to really pick up on lessons from those made by other people. I'll share one of mine here so you hopefully don't end up doing something similar. I married my husband when I was almost 23 years old, and … Continue reading Why You Should Sleep Around
Hey, hey, lookie here - a post on the day the trailer to 50 Shades Of Grey was released that's actually not about the movie or book. Go me.I spent a lot of today reading very educational posts about sex and BDSM and all that, and ended up masturbating because I couldn't handle the horny. … Continue reading Look Ma, An Orgasm!